abortion pill RU486: the loneliness of a choice. "Many women are asking, will give birth to a son, why? Why is hungry, because I have cool, because being betrayed and offended because dies killed by war or disease? And they deny the hope that his hunger is satisfied, that his cold is warmed, the loyalty and respect are the friends who live a long time to try to remove disease and war. "Oriana Fallaci writes in his famous book "Letter to a Child Never Born," a dramatic monologue about love, life, family and abortion. And these days the issue of abortion back to turn the hearts politicians and citizens. On 26 November, in fact, the Senate Health Committee approved, by majority, the final document of the hearings on the abortion pill presented by the chairman and rapporteur Antonio Tomassini. The stop to the marketing of RU486 is motivated by too many dark spots on the effects of providing the drug to the woman's health.
are too few and vague information circulating about this new drug and women are led to believe that medical abortion is a quick and easy solution to the "problem" trivializing abortion as if it were a walk. I think it is important to adequately inform women who are facing a difficult situation as the voluntary interruption of pregnancy.
The medical abortion is to acquire two drugs: mifepristone which blocks pregnancy by blocking the synthesis of the hormone progesterone, which is responsible for the development of the fetus and Prostalgina, administered two days later, which causes uterine contractions and the subsequent expulsion of fetus. After taking this drug remains the only pending expulsion of the fetus. About two weeks later you must do a check to verify the total expulsion, otherwise you will need a surgical excision.
Usually after the administration of the drugs you are having a little more painful abdominal cramps and menstrual cramps would stop in few days. Otherwise they will be given painkillers. After the expulsion of the fetus there will be more abundant bleeding of a menstrual period and will last nine days or more. Taking Prostalgina may cause nausea and diarrhea passengers.
But we must not think that the pharmacological approach is necessarily better than the surgery only because it is less invasive, each has its pros and cons and it is only the woman who intends to have an abortion to decide what is best for you. It 'important that the woman who comes to this choice tell you about the different procedures that are both safe and effective. In fact, the differences are not great and it is right to take them briefly considered.
- The medical abortion can be performed by the seventh week, while the surgery from the seventh week and before the twelfth.
- If performed under anesthesia, the voluntary termination of pregnancy can not be lived consciously with the surgical method, while the drug has always lived consciously, especially during the period of waiting deportation.
- The loss and pain due to the interruption of pregnancy are much more intense and prolonged the pharmacological method, whereas in the surgical undergoes an operation.
- The operation is planned and for twenty minutes while the drug is an expectation of completion of two weeks.
The marketing of RU486 by AIFA, although it is already used for some time in many European countries, has triggered a series of conflicting reactions reactivated the issue of abortion. The abortion pill
removes responsibility from the doctors, leaving women to themselves, without physical or psychological support. The stories of abortions they all speak of a great loneliness and a heavy sense of emptiness and irreparable loss.
Carlucci, a lawmaker of the PDL, speaks of "do it yourself abortion" while abortion is a delicate choice and every woman who is found to do so it must be assisted and cared for. It 'important that it be in hospital under medical supervision and psychological support, in accordance with law 194.
There is too much political fury of the debate on RU486, and this situation, as the University Centre for Bioethics at the Catholic University, directed by Professor Adriano Pessina, "highlights the need for the voluntary moratorium on abortion becomes concretely in the work of removing the causes that allow it. Today, among these causes, the most important seems to be not economic but cultural, that led to the disengagement of society, the disappearance of the figure and the father's responsibility, who has accepted a line of indifference which in fact leads to the existential loneliness of mothers who choose to abort. "
The most important thing is not siding with or against the abortion pill or abortion, but focus on sex education, ethics, moral and sentimental youth.
We must fight for information and assistance before anything else.
The real problem with RU486 is not so much whether it is right or not to trade, but how it will be used and why. It 'important that the use of the drug is strictly controlled because it is a simple way there is a risk to take lightly as it is still an abortion and then a difficult situation both physically and psychologically. And a pill will make it less traumatic. Unfortunately, we risk an increase in illegal abortions done at home because of incompetent doctors with serious risks for mothers who do not follow unconsciously.
would be enough that people were more serious and reliable and there were all these problems, each one could choose according to their conscience.
But abortion today is taken far too lightly and the marketing of RU486 is likely to fuel this trend. Women cry
the right to freedom of choice but the poor creature in her womb and who has no guilt and no one is killed it is worried about what he could want. Who gives the right to decide the lives of others?
I do not want a crusade against abortion, each is free to decide for himself. But if a woman decides to abort it is imperative that become aware of what he is doing, without finding shortcuts to ease their selfish choice. The claim that the first three months of life is not just an excuse to ease the conscience. Seeing pictures of a fetus than a month you realize that even if your child is already tiny and the struggle for life.
I think that many people use the excuse of being young and not having the right financial support and then decide to have an abortion "for the good of the child" is pure hypocrisy. What is really important for a person? Give him a chance to live or to kill an attachment to consumerism?
Go a few days in an orphanage in Romania and Russia and look at those poor children alone, without love or care, not just with toys and clothes. You will see how they will send you love for life.
are few real cases of economic problems and nowadays there are plenty of aid for single mothers in need. Just call the Social Services of the Municipality of Residence and Province or aid associations (there are many in Italy) such as the Community Pope John XXIII. Every woman has the right to physical and psychological assistance to a family in a house during and after pregnancy, after birth, an economic aid and facilities to place the child in a nursery. In
Or there's always the possibility of its adoption. Anyone can give birth anonymously without acknowledging his son.
Among the many testimonies I've read and heard, most of remorse, grief and loneliness, I hit those girls who felt they were forced to terminate the pregnancy against their will, for fear of those who do know their parents and who as required by the family or boyfriend.
The law protects women and forbids anyone to impose abortion on a woman who does not want it, whether adults or minors. A mother of any age, freedom of choice. Remember that abortion is an irreversible action that will accompany you throughout life. The worst
I have shocked are those in which women, often married or with other children, who decide to have abortions just to go on vacation or because pregnant lover. It happens more often than you think.
A concrete example can also be found in the autobiography of Valeria Marini "private lessons". The famous Showgirl admits having had an abortion three times during his life, without ever giving a very valid explanation. The first fourteen years, when she was pregnant by a thirty. After this experience should be more careful but the following two unexpected pregnancies were the result of the love between you and Vittorio Cecchi Gori. "For a month I had the cycle and was certain to finally be pregnant, but One evening, after yet another fight, I had a terrible hemorrhage. I have not even made the hospital. Then it happened again when I was willing to sacrifice, but when I gave the news to Victor, his response was, 'How do we go sailing? "' ... And so trivial and insignificant reasons for this had an abortion, despite states that still ardently desires a son.
And similar cases unfortunately there are many.
I think if a girl decides to be ready to go to bed with her boyfriend then it must also be mature enough to take responsibility for his actions.
Today is full of all kinds of contraceptives and advice abound in Italy where adolescent gynecologists, obstetricians and psychologists are willing to give all the aid and advice you need for free and anonymously. And in the unlikely event that, despite the attention, something went wrong, there's always the morning-after pill (obviously to be used only in case of an emergency and to avoid as much as possible because it can cause serious problems if used more than 3 times).
If you only used a little 'more attention to girls who would come to pose the problem of abortion would be much more rare. Love must be lived with brain and consciousness, especially if there is a risk of bringing in a difficult situation such as unexpected pregnancies.
"Freedom 'is a duty, and right before a 'duty. But nothing and 'preferred to suffer? I even pauses to cry about my failures, my disappointments, my tortures, I conclude that suffering is preferable to nothing. If one dies it means that he was born, that came out of nothing, and nothing is worse than nothing: the ugly is not to say there was. "(From" Letter to a Child Never Born "by Oriana Fallaci).
